Most of us are afraid of loneliness and do many things to not feel the feeling. Ilchi Lee, in this poem from his lecture, presents a strongly positive case for experiencing loneliness, solitude and wholeness as a way of learning how to experience the truth:
You will find great truth in deep solitude and loneliness.
But for those who are immersed with personal desires,
no words of truth will sink into their hearts.
There are many different kinds of loneliness.
If possible, I would like to have one
that gathers in the hearts of those with high will.
The loneliness of people who shut themselves
in their small room
and complain about the world
is cheap.
But the loneliness of those
who confront their lives magnificently
is beautiful.
The people who have felt loneliness thoroughly,
who have been alone completely,
can feel what wholeness is.
Only those who have felt wholeness in complete solitude
can find truth in everything.